Introductions
The Quiet Work of a Mutual Introduction
A mutual introduction gives both people useful context, clear consent and an easy opening, without pretending to…
The reading shelf
All reading
Explore the customs, settings and conversations around matchmaking, from the small courtesies of a first meeting to the changing language of compatibility.
Gatherings
A Shared Table or a Walk in Company?
A shared table or a walk in company suits different introductions. Choose a setting that fits the group, supports easy…
Matchmaking Past
When Calling Cards Carried Courtship
Calling cards and courtship worked through visits, intermediaries and household responses. Learn how to read the…
Expectations
The Compatibility Score Is Not a Verdict
A compatibility score can start a useful conversation, but a week of reflection helps separate a suggestive result…
Conversation
Questions for a First Conversation That Leave Space
Questions for a first conversation can invite an easy, two-way exchange without turning a meeting into an interview or…
Our point of view
A match is a beginning, not a conclusion.
We look at the customs and choices around introductions with curiosity, while leaving room for people to decide what connection means to them.